Taylor Swift vs Charli XCX – The Feud No One Saw Coming – Hw
I’m so proud of her to have watched so much happen in her life. >> She’s an incredible business woman and she’s really kind. You are pitted against your peers. Charlie XCX through shaded Taylor. Swifties are a buzz about a possible diss track on Taylor’s new album. >> I don’t hate you and I don’t think about this, but like thank you for all the effort.
>> Girl, this is so confusing. Once upon a time, Taylor Swift and Charlie XEX used to be friends. They would hang out at events, cover each other’s music, and even tooured the world together. But then, boom, clap. They started throwing subtle jabs at each other, engaging in chart rivalries, and dropping diss tracks.
What on earth happened between them? Let’s break it down. But first, it is important to set out the friendship timeline between the two. Please mind the dust on my hoodie. I tried to eliminate a mosquito in my Airbnb using my hoodie and discovered that the walls are covered in dust. While Taylor started in the music industry a lot earlier than Charlie, it appears that Charlie was on Taylor’s radar ever since the release of her first album after saying that she was blown away with Charlie’s songwriting after hearing Stay
Away in 2011. The two then interacted backstage at the Jingle Ball in 2014. They must have had a mutual respect for each other since Charlie did a cover of Shake It Off for BBC Radio 1’s Live Lounge. And Taylor included Stay Away in a breakup themed playlist in 2015. Additionally, Charlie appeared as a surprise guest on the 1989 world tour in October 2015, performing Boom Clap.
Even with all of the friendly interactions, Charlie was never part of Taylor’s iconic girl squad, which had a glorious rise and fall in the mid2010s. To learn more, go watch my video on it. By 2016, both artists went through very pivotal moments in their careers. Charlie had become an experimental indie darling, working with the innovative producer Sophie to make music in the genre that is now known as hyperpop.
On the other hand, Taylor removed herself from the public eye after her reputation was damaged by Kanye and Kim Kardashian. Because of this, Charlie and Taylor did not have any interactions for a couple of years. But when Taylor made a successful comeback with the release of her album, Reputation, she announced a world tour featuring two opening acts, Camila Cabo and Charlie XCX.
The fact that none of these people like each other anymore is crazy. As I mentioned earlier, Charlie was making hyperpop influence music, so it did not resonate with Taylor’s younger fan base. Most nights, Charlie was performing to what felt like 10% of the crowd. In a Pitchfork interview in 2019, Charlie talked about performing at the tour as getting up on stage and waving to 5-year-olds.
What >> Swifties were clearly offended by this quote because some of them are five and 3/4 and that is a huge difference. Charlie clarified that her comments were taken out of context and reiterated that she was incredibly grateful to Taylor for the opportunity. >> Are you still on tour with Taylor Swift or you >> I’m on tour still.
She’s an incredible business woman and she’s really kind. She makes us feel like so welcome. It feels like a like girl gang on tour together. It’s really good. When the reputation tour came to an end, so did Charlie and Taylor’s friendship. While they may have bumped into each other at industry events or at parties, there is no evidence that the two hung out ever since.
Fast forward to 2023, Taylor broke up with her long-term boyfriend, Joe Olwin, and rumors started circulating that she was seeing Maddie Healey, the lead singer of the 1975. Although they were never official, they were clearly hanging out. At the same time, Charlie was dating Matty Healey’s bandmate, George Daniel. This meant that Charlie and Taylor bumped into each other backstage at 1975 concerts.
No photos of the two were posted online, but this was established with the release of Brat in 2024, which featured the song Sympathy is a knife. In the song, Charlie sung about feeling insecure and lesser than around another woman, unnamed, but most likely referring to Taylor Swift. Why? Let’s look at the clues.
But first, please do not forget to subscribe if you have not done so already. The most likely reference to Taylor is the lyric, “Don’t want to see her backstage at my boyfriend show, fingers crossed behind my back. I hope they break up quick.” Charlie is clearly talking about a woman that is dating someone in the 1975.
Does this immediately mean that she is referring to Taylor Swift? No. But in the chorus, she sings, “Cuz I couldn’t even be her if I tried. I’m opposite. I’m on the other side.” Here, Charlie is saying that this woman is more successful than her and could not even attain that level of success even if she gave 110%.
The only other famous woman to date someone in the 1975 at the same time as Charlie were Taylor Swift and FKA Twix. Now, I don’t want to throw Twix shade, but I highly doubt Charlie was talking about her. Additionally, Charlie sung about being opposite to the woman. This was most likely referring to Taylor Swift because she was the biggest star on the planet in the middle of the uber successful Aerys tour.
While everybody assumed that this song was about Taylor Swift, nobody perceived it as a pure diss track. The closest lyric to dissing Taylor is the one where she hoped that she would break up with Mattie Healey. The rest of the song is about Charlie battling her own insecurities and self-hatred for not feeling as successful as the other people in her industry.
In her own words, she said, “The song is about me and my feelings and my anxiety and the way my brain creates narratives and stories in my head when I feel insecure and how I don’t want to be in those situations physically when I feel selfdoubt.” >> Some days you can feel unbelievably insecure. Other days you can feel highly competitive.
Sometimes you can feel like literal trash. Um, and it’s really emotional and it’s complicated to deal with and we’re not supposed to talk about it, but these songs do talk about it. >> Taylor initially seemed unbothered by the song, tripping on with the aerostorm promoting her own album, The Tortured Poets Department, that released a couple months earlier than Brat.
The Brat album immediately received universal critical acclaim, and it was projected to hit number one on the UK charts for the week. Then out of nowhere, a couple days before the end of the week, Taylor announced a special variant of her album for sale exclusively for UK fans. The internet was outraged because it felt like an intentional way to block Charlie from getting a number one album, not even in America, but in her homeland.
People had also noticed that Taylor had a pattern of doing this with other artists. For example, Taylor released a special variant of her album the same week that Billy Isish released Hit Me hard and soft, blocking her from the number one spot for that week. Swifties argued that the UKon release did make sense because she was touring the UK at the same time.
And it’s also unfair to criticize an artist for promoting their album and wanting it to sell well, which, yeah, that’s completely valid. Ultimately, Taylor got the number one spot on the UK charts, which got Charlie’s fans so upset that they chanted anti-Taylor sentiments at Charlie’s concerts. Charlie was quick to denounce this online.
A couple of months later, Charlie did a photo shoot for New York Magazine with a giant seed hand that had a bunch of friendship bracelets on it. Swifties interpreted this as Taylor shade since fans would exchange friendship bracelets at the Aerys Tour. But exchanging bracelets was also a common thing for people to do when they go to raves, which was the entire theme of the Brat album.
Around the same time, Taylor complimented Charlie in an interview, saying, “I’ve been blown away by Charlie’s melodic sensibilities since I first heard Stay Away in 2011. Her writing is surreal and inventive always. She just takes a song to places you wouldn’t expect it to go, and she’s been doing it consistently for over a decade.
I love to see hard work like that pay off. In this context, it felt like Taylor was not offended by Sympathy as a Knife and was not trying to intentionally block Charlie on the chart. Taylor was even seen dancing to Charlie’s performance at the 2025 Grammys, which I’ve also made a video on.
In October 2024, Charlie released the Brat remix album. Fans were hoping that Taylor would make a surprise appearance on the Sympathy is a knife remix, but no, we get Ariana Grande. The lyrics were changed entirely, which completely changed the theme of the song. Instead of it being about battling insecurities, the remix focused on tall poppy syndrome, the feeling of being cut down by others after achieving success.
This version had no reference to Taylor, and in my personal opinion is the better version. By the end of 2024, the discourse around Charlie and Taylor was old news. Nobody cared about it anymore. This leads us to August 2025 when Taylor announced the release date and track list of her newest album, The Life of a Showgirl.
Just like what happens with every other album, fans start to jokingly make videos about how certain songs are going to sound before their release. Comedian Veronica Suovikovska posted a video predicting what the life of a show girl was going to sound like, which made Charlie XEx’s close friend and current girlfriend of Maddie Healey Gabriette comment, “Babe, record actually romantic, please.
” For those of you that are not hardcore Swifties, you probably had a brain aneurysm trying to comprehend this comment. So, let me fix it for you. It should read babe, record quote actually romantic end quote please. If you are still lost Gabriette was asking Veronica to record track seven of Taylor’s new album titled Actually Romantic.
This got the internet buzzing questioning why Gabriette wanted this specific track to be recorded. Well, the only guess at the time was that the song’s lyrics allegedly leaked online, apparently dissing Charlie XCX. Retrospectively, the leaked lyrics ended up being the official lyrics to Actually Romantic, but at the time they felt fake.
The lyrics did not sound like a protottypical Taylor Swift song, and people assumed that a troll made them up as a way to promote infighting between fans or hype up the album on Twitter. Because of this, people assumed that Gabriette was falsely tricked into believing that these lyrics were real and that she was a clown for shading Taylor.
But once the album was officially released on October 3rd, 2025, also known as Mean Girls Day, it was proven that the leaked lyrics were real. In Actually Romantic, Taylor calls out a woman for bullying her. But just like what is said in kindergarten, when a bully is mean to you, it’s because they actually love you.
So, this person talking smack about Taylor is actually romantic. You know what? I’ll let Taylor explain it in her own words. >> I don’t hate you and I don’t think about this, but like, thank you for all the effort. >> So, why does everybody believe that this song was directed at Charlie? Well, let’s look at the clues.
Firstly, the song’s title could reference Charlie’s song Everything is Romantic. Everything is Romantic was track seven on Brat, and Actually Romantic is track seven on The Life of a Showgirl. In the opening lyric, Taylor references how the person she is singing about is Brave after drinking CocaCola. Taylor must be a Pepsi head.
This is the biggest cola war that has happened since Britney and Christina’s back in the early 2000s. To learn more, go watch my video on it. Now, I need to say allegedly in caps lock, but it is pretty well understood that Charlie is a 365 party girl that sings about doing a little key and having a little line. The second lyric then talks about high-fiving her ex-boyfriend, being happy broke up with Taylor.
Out of all of Taylor’s exes, the only one that Charlie has a relationship with is Maddie Healey. This also links back to Charlie’s lyric in Sympathy is a Knife where she sung about hoping that her and Matty Healey would break up soon. There is also a lyric about a person writing a song about Taylor and that she feels sick when she sees her.
This is clearly referencing the lyrics to Sympathy as a Knife. And in the chorus, Taylor sings, “No man has ever loved me like you do.” This likely establishes that Taylor is referring to a woman instead of a man. All clues lead to Charlie. I cannot think of another woman that has written a song about Taylor and feeling sick about seeing her face is still close with her ex-boyfriend and allegedly drinks Coca-Cola.
If Taylor felt like her song was a tit for tat actually romantic feels disproportionate to sympathy as a knife. It feels like Taylor misunderstood what Charlie was actually singing about in Sympathy as a Knife, and she felt like her song was an equal thrashing. Potentially, the song is more about the behindthescenes comments that Charlie has made behind Taylor’s Back rather than just being a response to Sympathy as a Knife.
Lyrics like the one saying that Charlie called her a boring Barbie make it clear that the song extends beyond what was just said in Sympathy is a knife. So, it is possible that Actually Romantic is a product of hearing gossip rather than just being upset about sympathy as a knife. The internet was instantly critical of actually romantic, thinking that it was unnecessarily rude and that she completely misunderstood how Charlie felt.
Pitchfork even wrote an article saying that actually romantic is actually embarrassing. Taylor is incredibly savvy when it comes to business and the music industry, so I have to assume that she knew that this was going to be the reception. But the Swifties, of course, still had her back. Actually, romantic is better than sympathies.
And I’ve cleared Taylor wins. There’s just more of us. There are more Swifties than there are angels. So, angels are going to be in hell for a while. >> As well as Nicki Minaj that is going through it at the moment. Let’s just say when listening to Actually Romantic, it does seem somewhat out of character for Taylor.
It is easier for Charlie to throw jabs at people in her music when her album title is literally called Brat. But Taylor was once the person that said there’s a special place in hell for women that don’t support other women. While it might be unfair to say that Charlie is allowed to be rude and Taylor isn’t, it doesn’t feel like the punishment fits the crime.
From the information that the public knows, Charlie has said that she felt insecure around Taylor and Taylor’s response was, “I live rentree in your head.” Actually, romantic feels like Bad Blood 2.0, which was a diss track towards Katy Perry. Katie received a bunch of hate from the song when the main reason for their feud was to do with three backup dancers leaving Taylor’s tour for Katie’s tour.
While emotions can be heightened and artist should not have restrictions on their songwriting, Bad Blood and its accompanying music video feel disproportionate to the real live drama that went on with the backup dancers. Furthermore, the release of this song made people question whether Taylor blocking Brat on the UK charts was intentional as a way to get back at Charlie.
Even though the release of Actually Romantic feels like an escalation to this feud, Charlie is not innocent when it comes to shading other women, in particular Camila Cabo. When Camila started teasing the release of her lead single, I Love It, discourse online was that it sounded a lot like Charlie’s song, I Got It, [Music] >> Camila posted a Tik Tok of her lip-syncing to the song in a car.
And then days later, Charlie lip-synced in a car to I Got It. >> There was no other intention but for Charlie to add fuel to the fire. So, Camila received a bunch more hate and was accused of being a copycat. Afterwards, Cama confirmed in an interview that Charlie was never actually mad about the similarities with the song and was just playing into the Brat era.
While Cama respected her explanation, she started off her new album cycle with hate and a bunch of allegations that she was copying other people’s style. First impressions were set and her album did not end up performing that well. Arguably, Girls So Confusing was also sort of kind of a diss track towards Lord, but overall the concept of the song was the confusing, conflicting thoughts that one has towards an industry friend.
Lord fully understood the meaning of the song and suggested to work it out on the remix, which produced probably one of the most impactful songs of the 21st century. And if you think that I’m exaggerating, The Independent ranked it as the best song of 2024. As previously mentioned, people hoped that Sympathy is a Knife would get the same treatment as Girl So Confusing, but alas, they did not work it out on the remix.
I wonder if it was ever in the cards for Taylor to feature because I personally do not see Charlie hopping on the remix to Actually Romantic. It is not her sound at all. Another thing that I’m super interested by is how this feud is going to affect industry friendship politics. Selena Gomez is Taylor’s best friend yet included Bluest Flame on her latest album which was co-written by Charlie.
Is Selena cool with both? Was Taylor all good with Selena singing a Charlie song? Also, while Taylor and Ariana have had barely any interactions over the years, did Taylor feel a certain way towards Ariana for featuring on the Sympathy as a knife remix? And finally, what does this mean for Charlie personally? If she did talk smack about Taylor to her inner circle, which friend spilled the tea to Taylor? Because they must have been someone credible enough, but also close enough to Charlie that she felt safe to share things with them.
Is Charlie now walking around feeling paranoid that one of her closest friends can’t be trusted? What do you guys think? Do you think that actually romantic was fair game? And do you think that there is a path forward between these two? Let me know in the comments. A quick reminder that I have a Patreon where I am posting exclusive content.
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QQ4 Bob Dylan and Keith Richards have been close friends for nearly 40 years. The friendship began on a live television program in November of 1986 in the 11 seconds after Bob Dylan called Keith Richards music derivative on camera. Keith Richard’s response to that assessment, one sentence said without anger, without performance, with the specific directness of a man who has nothing to prove and knows it made Bob Dylan laugh.
Then made Bob Dylan go quiet. then made Bob Dylan say two words that people who know Bob Dylan say he almost never said to anyone. This is the story of those 11 seconds and the 40 years that followed them. The program was a live music interview special broadcast on an American network on the evening of November 3rd, 1986. The format was simple.
Two musicians, a host, an hour of conversation about music and the state of it. The producers had assembled the pairing of Bob Dylan and Keith Richards with the specific calculation of television producers who understand that two people with equally strong and potentially incompatible views about what music is and what it should do will produce better television than two people who agree about everything.
The calculation was correct, though not in the way the producers had anticipated. Bob Dylan was 45 years old in November of 1986. Bob Dylan had released Empire Burlesque the previous year and had been on the road for most of the intervening period as part of the True Confessions tour with Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers.
Bob Dylan was in November of 1986 in one of the most prolific and restless phases of a career that had consisted almost entirely of prolific and restless phases. A career that had moved through folk, rock, country, gospel, and back again, that had been declared finished at least six times by the music press, and at each time continued with the serene indifference of a river to the opinions of people standing on its banks.
Bob Dylan had been redefining what music could be. Since 1962, Bob Dylan had invented and reinvented himself so many times that reinvention had become his defining characteristic, not in the superficial sense of a performer changing costumes, but in the deeper sense of a musician who had never allowed his work to settle into a form that could be anticipated or categorized from the outside.
Bob Dylan understood influence and originality and the relationship between them better than almost anyone alive in 1986. Bob Dylan had spent 24 years thinking carefully and specifically about where music came from and where music was going and what it meant that those two things were always in constant conversation with each other.
Keith Richards was 42 years old in November of 1986. Keith Richards had been playing guitar professionally since 1962. Keith Richards had built a career on a foundation of American blues and rhythm and blues. A foundation that Keith Richards had studied with the systematic devotion of someone who understood that the tradition he was building on was not incidental to the music he was making, but essential to it.
that you could not understand what Keith Richards did without understanding where Keith Richards had come from and what Keith Richards had been listening to since he was a teenager in Dartford with American Import Records and a secondhand guitar and no teacher except the recordings themselves. Keith Richards had never pretended otherwise. Keith Richards had in fact spent considerable energy across his career making the lineage explicit, naming the artists, citing the recordings, insisting on the acknowledgement of influence that the mainstream music
industry had a long history of suppressing or ignoring or crediting to the wrong people. If anything, Keith Richards was more transparent about his sources than most musicians of his generation. Keith Richards had always said openly that the Rolling Stones came directly from the blues, that Muddy Waters and Robert Johnson and the specific tradition of the Mississippi Delta were not background influences, but foundational ones.
The music Keith Richards made was in direct and sustained conversation with that tradition, something Keith Richards considered not a limitation, but a responsibility and a form of respect. The interview had been running for 8 minutes when the host asked Bob Dylan about the current state of rock and roll.
Bob Dylan answered with the density and the indirection that characterized Bob Dylan’s responses to direct questions, turning the question over, approaching it from an unexpected angle, finding his way to what he actually thought through a series of observations that moved like a river rather than a road. Bob Dylan was not a straightforward interview subject.
Bob Dylan had been asked about rock and roll in hundreds of interviews across 24 years and had developed the habit of treating the question as an invitation to think out loud rather than a request for a prepared position. The producer Gerald Sherman said afterward that in the first 8 minutes of the interview, he had been slightly anxious, not because anything was going wrong, but because nothing was going anywhere in particular yet.
The interview had the feeling of two conversations happening simultaneously. Bob Dylan’s internal one and the external one visible to the cameras. And Gerald Sherman was not certain in those first eight minutes that the two conversations would converge into something. Bob Dylan talked about influence. Bob Dylan talked about originality.
Bob Dylan talked about the difference between music that absorbed a tradition and transformed it and music that absorbed a tradition and reproduced it. And then Bob Dylan made his assessment. And then Bob Dylan said with the precision of a man making a musical assessment rather than a personal judgment that the Rolling Stones work, and Bob Dylan was specific, naming Keith Richards as the guitarist whose approach he was discussing was derivative in a way that Bob Dylan found limiting.
Bob Dylan said it without hostility. Bob Dylan said it as a technical observation about the relationship between source material and the work that came from it. Bob Dylan said that Keith Richards played the blues the way the blues had already been played, rather than using the blues as a starting point for something that had not yet been played.
Keith Richards had been listening to this with the specific attention Keith Richards gave to things being said about music by people who knew music. Keith Richards did not interrupt. Keith Richards did not shift in his chair or display any of the visible signals of a person preparing a defensive response. Keith Richards listened to Bob Dylan’s complete observation all the way to its conclusion without interrupting and without displaying any visible signal of preparing a response.
Then Keith Richards said one sentence. The sentence was not a rebuttal. The sentence did not defend Keith Richards music or argue for its originality or challenge Bob Dylan’s characterization of what the blues meant in the context of rock and roll. The sentence was something else entirely, something that required a specific kind of confidence to say.
The confidence of a person who has spent long enough thinking about the same things as the person they are talking to that they can locate the exact point where their thinking diverges and say something useful about that point rather than simply defending their own position. The sentence acknowledged everything Bob Dylan had said, the assessment, the distinction Bob Dylan was drawing, the specific musical concern underlying the observation, and then turned it 90°.
Keith Richards took Bob Dylan’s own framework, the one Bob Dylan had used to analyze Keith Richards relationship to the blues tradition, and applied it back to Bob Dylan’s work with the same precision Bob Dylan had used to apply it to Keith Richards. Spare aimed. The sentence asked Bob Dylan something about Bob Dylan’s own music, about the relationship between Bob Dylan’s sources and Bob Dylan’s output that Bob Dylan had not been asked on television before.
The sentence did not attack. The sentence illuminated. Bob Dylan laughed. The laugh was not the polite laugh of someone responding to a joke. The laugh was the involuntary laugh of someone who has been genuinely surprised. The specific kind of surprise that a person of exceptional intelligence experiences when someone else’s intelligence exceeds their expectations.
Bob Dylan laughed for 4 seconds. Then Bob Dylan stopped laughing. Then Bob Dylan was quiet for 3 seconds in the way that Bob Dylan was quiet when Bob Dylan was thinking rather than performing thought. Then Bob Dylan said, “You’re right.” The producer in the booth, a man named Gerald Sherman, who had been working in television for 14 years, said afterward that in 14 years of live television production, he had never heard Bob Dylan say those two words in a public forum.
Gerald Sherman said he had worked with Bob Dylan on two previous occasions and had observed Bob Dylan in numerous other contexts and that you’re right was not a phrase that Bob Dylan deployed easily or often because Bob Dylan had spent 24 years being right about music in ways that other people eventually caught up with. And the experience of being right ahead of everyone else does not generally produce a man who says you’re right readily when someone else makes a point.
The host of the program, a journalist named Patricia Wells, who had been interviewing musicians for 12 years, said afterward that the 11 seconds between Bob Dylan’s assessment and Bob Dylan saying, “You’re right,” were the most extraordinary 11 seconds of television she had been present for. Patricia Wells said that what she witnessed in those 11 seconds was not a debate or a confrontation or a celebrity exchange of competing opinions.
Patricia Wells said what she witnessed was one musician recognizing another musician as an equal, which was in the specific context of Bob Dylan in 1986, not something that happened in public very often. The interview continued for another 42 minutes after those 11 seconds. The conversation between Bob Dylan and Keith Richards in the remaining 42 minutes was described by everyone who watched it as fundamentally different from the first 8 minutes.
The host, Patricia Wells, who had been conducting music interviews for 12 years and understood the difference between the performance of conversation and actual conversation, said that at approximately the 9-minute mark, something shifted in the studio. That the formal interview, architecture dissolved, and what replaced it was something less structured and more genuine.
Bob Dylan and Keith Richards talked about influence and originality and the blues and what it meant to build on a tradition without being consumed by it. They talked about specific recordings and specific musicians with the specificity of two people who had spent their entire adult lives thinking about these things and rarely found another person who had thought about them with equivalent care.
They talked about where music came from and where music was going and whether those two questions were actually one question or two. Patricia Wells said afterward that she had asked approximately four questions in the remaining 42 minutes because Bob Dylan and Keith Richards did not require questions. They required only a room and a camera and the shared understanding that what they were saying together was worth recording carefully.
She said it was the best interview she had ever conducted and that she had conducted the smallest part of it. After the program, Bob Dylan and Keith Richards were in the corridor outside the studio when the host Patricia Wells passed them. Patricia Wells said she did not stop because she did not want to interrupt.
She observed them for approximately 30 seconds from a distance. She said they were talking with the ease of people who had known each other for years rather than people who had met for the first time 2 hours earlier. She said that something had shifted between them during the broadcast that the broadcast had made permanent rather than temporary.
She continued down the corridor and did not look back. She said in her account of that evening that she had decided in that moment not to interrupt the conversation because some conversations are more valuable than any question a journalist might ask and that the conversation she had observed for 30 seconds in the corridor outside the studio was one of them.
She had been a music journalist for 12 years. She recognized the difference. Bob Dylan and Keith Richards have maintained their friendship across four decades. They have appeared together at various events, most significantly at the concert for the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1995, where people who were present described them as inseparable for most of the evening, occupying the same corner of the backstage area and talking with the concentrated attention of people who only have a limited amount of time together and intend to use it
well. Bob Dylan has spoken about Keith Richards in interviews with the specific thoughtful care that Bob Dylan reserves for musicians whose work Bob Dylan considers genuinely important rather than merely culturally prominent. Keith Richards has spoken about Bob Dylan in similar terms with the specific respect of someone who recognizes in another person a commitment to music that goes deeper than career.
Neither Bob Dylan nor Keith Richards has made a public statement specifically about how the friendship began or about the November 1986 interview. Bob Dylan has not mentioned the 11 seconds. Keith Richards has not mentioned the sentence. The interview exists in the archive. The 11 seconds are there. The laugh is there. The two words are there.
What is also there for anyone who watches the interview from its beginning and pays attention to the shift that happens at the 9-minute mark is the specific moment when two people who thought they were appearing on a television program discovered they were actually talking to each other. What Keith Richards said in that one sentence has never been officially reported.
The people who were in the studio that evening, Gerald Sherman, Patricia Wells, the floor crew, the two camera operators, the makeup artist who was watching from the side of the set, have described the sentence in consistent terms. They have described its effect. They have described Bob Dylan’s laugh and Bob Dylan’s silence and Bob Dylan’s two words.
They have not repeated the sentence itself in the specific understanding that the sentence was said between two musicians on a television program and that its power resided in the specific context of that exchange and would not survive removal from it intact. What can be said is this. Keith Richards said something to Bob Dylan about Bob Dylan’s music that used Bob Dylan’s own observation about Keith Richards as its starting point and arrived somewhere that Bob Dylan had not anticipated.
Keith Richards turned Bob Dylan’s assessment 90° and showed Bob Dylan something about the music they had both spent their lives making that Bob Dylan recognized immediately as true. And Bob Dylan said, “You’re right.” Two words said by Bob Dylan in public on live television in 1986 to Keith Richards in response to a single sentence Keith Richards had said about music.
Two words that Gerald Sherman, who had worked with Bob Dylan on two previous occasions, said he had never heard Bob Dylan say in a public forum. Two words that Patricia Wells, who had been interviewing musicians for 12 years, said were the most significant two words she had heard in those 12 years. Not because of their content, but because of who said them and what it cost to say them and what it meant that Keith Richards had produced them in 11 seconds from a conversation that began with Bob Dylan calling Keith Richards’s music derivative. And Keith Richards and
Bob Dylan have been close friends for nearly 40 years. The sentence did its work in 11 seconds on the evening of November 3rd, 1986. The work has been ongoing ever since. If this story moved you, subscribe and leave a comment below. Have you ever said something to someone that turned a potential disagreement into an unexpected and lasting connection? Tell us about it in the comments below.
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