They Trashed the Woman’s Harley in the Lot — Didn’t Know She Commanded 800 Riders in 9 States – dw

At 11:42 on a Tuesday night in June, a woman named Ivy Kagawa walked out of a Flying J truck stop off Interstate 40 in Amarillo, Texas, carrying a paper bag with a chicken sandwich and a bottle of iced tea. At 11:43, there were four men beside her motorcycle with a crowbar. At 12:17, one of those four men would be sitting on the pavement crying and asking for his father, and the other three would have already made the phone calls that would end their entire lives as they currently understood them. Because the

woman they had chosen to humiliate in that parking lot, the woman whose bike they were preparing to break for the entertainment of their group text, was not the tired middle-aged rider they thought she was. She was the international president of the Dust Devil Nation Motorcycle Club, a chartered brotherhood of 811 full patched members across nine states.

and she had in her jacket pocket the phone numbers of every chapter president in that brotherhood. She was also carrying in her boot a photograph of a young man who had died in 2011 whose name they were about to make her say out loud. But we are getting ahead of ourselves to understand how a Tuesday night parking lot decision in Amarillo ended with four college sophomores being flown home in the middle of the night by their own parents.

And with two of those parents writing letters of apology that they would carry in their wallets for the rest of their lives, we have to go back to the beginning. We have to go back to a rest area in eastern New Mexico and to a woman named Ivy Kagawa. And to the reason she was on that road on that Tuesday in June alone, Ivy Kagawa was 46 years old.

She had black hair with a single stripe of silver at the left temple tied back in a low braid. Her father had been a Japanese American electrician from Sacramento. Her mother had been a Cheyenne nurse from Lame Deere, Montana. Ivy had been born in Bosezeman in 1979 and raised mostly on a series of Air Force bases her stepfather had rotated through Peterson in Colorado Springs, Cannon in Clovis, Das in Abalene.

She had learned to ride at 14 on a used Honda 200. She and her brother had rebuilt in a shed at Das. Her brother’s name was Kai. Kai had been three years older. Kai had died in 2011 in Afghanistan of an IED 31 days into his second deployment. Ivy had gotten the phone call on a Sunday afternoon in October. She had been at her kitchen table in Denver grading undergraduate psychology papers.

She was 31 years old after Kai Ivy did not go back to teaching. She could not sit in a room with 22 year olds and listen to them argue about term paper extensions. She quit the following January. She took a job in Denver at a nonprofit called Riding Home, which paid for private funeral transport for the remains of American service members whose families could not afford it.

She worked there for 6 years. In 2017 at 40, she joined the Dust Devil Nation motorcycle club in the Denver chapter. The Dust Devil Nation had been founded in 1979 in Farmington, New Mexico by three brothers named Halvour, Petya, and Wolf from Nakath Norwegian. All three of them former army. It had grown quietly across the high plains.

Nine states, 68 chapters, 811 full patched members at the count that June. Ivy Kagawa had been the international president for 4 years. She had not sought the office. It had come to her the way these offices come to people who do not want them. She had run the widows and orphans fund for the Denver chapter for 2 years and had figured out quietly and without asking anyone how to double its intake without doubling its overhead.

The old international president, a man named Halvor Nakosh Jr., son of one of the founders, had watched her do it. When he stepped down at 71, he had asked her at church whether she would take the seat. She had said no. He had asked again. She had said let me think about it. 3 days later she said yes.

She was the second woman in the history of the club to hold the seat. The first had been a woman named Truda Vog in 1988 who had held it for 2 years and who had died of pancreatic cancer in office. There was a plaque with her name above the door of the Farmington chapter house. Ivy Kagawa’s tenure had already been marked by three quiet things.

She had modernized the widows and orphans fund. She had established a program that placed adaptive motorcycles with disabled veterans. And she had, without making any announcement, personally attended the funeral of every full patched member of the club who had died in her four years 61 funerals across nine states.

She had ridden to each one on her own bike alone and had stood in the back in her cut and had shaken hands with the family and had left before the reception. On that Tuesday in June, she was on Interstate 40 westbound because her old friend Halvore Nakos Jr., the man who had asked her to take the seat, had been diagnosed the previous week with pancreatic cancer. Stage four.

He was in a hospice in Gallup, New Mexico. He was expected to live 6 to 8 weeks. Ivy had left Denver at 4 in the morning. She was riding a 2007 Harley-Davidson Road King, black on black, 61,000 m on it. Gray tank patch where a paint chip had never been repaired. It had been Kai’s bike.

She had bought it used from his estate at the wrongful death auction 11 months after his death, and she had never repainted it, and she never would. Under her cut, in her jacket’s inside pocket, was a photograph of Kai at 19. In his dress blues on the day of his enlistment, she had taken it herself in the driveway of their mother’s house in Colorado Springs. She had it laminated.

She rode with it against her chest. She had stopped for gas and food at the Flying J in Amarillo at 11:28. She had planned to be back on the road by midnight. She had another 5 hours of riding to reach Gallup. She wanted to be there before dawn. She had eaten inside because the wind was up and she did not want to eat on her bike.

She had ordered the chicken sandwich, wheat bread, no mayonnaise, and the iced tea. She had sat in a booth by herself for 22 minutes. She had not looked at her phone. She had watched a family in a booth across the aisle, a mother and two small daughters, eat pancakes at 11:40 in the evening because the two small daughters were evidently on a road trip and did not know what time was.

Ivy had smiled at the smaller daughter, who was maybe five, and the smaller daughter had shyly waved back with two fingers. Then Ivy had paid, took her bag, said thank you to the cashier, and walked out into the parking lot. There were four men on her bike. They were all between 18 and 20. Three of them wore polo shirts.

One of them wore a hoodie from a private university in the Denver metro area. They were driving a black BMW X7 that was parked two spaces away. They were later identified as Palmer Vestrup, 19, sophomore at Denver Metropolitan. Bram Ostro at the same school, Dennis Marbell, 18, freshman, and Kalen Everett, 20, junior, at Colorado State University.

They were on a road trip. Their families had rented them a beach house in Rosemary Beach, Florida for 11 days. They had been drinking all day. Palmer Vestrop was holding a crowbar. He had gotten it out of the trunk of the BMW 20 seconds before Ivy walked out of the Flying J. He was holding the crowbar because Bram Ostroca 3 minutes earlier had said to the group text, “Guys, watch this.

” And had walked over to the bike and had spit on the tank. And Palmer Vestroop had said, “That is nothing. Watch this.” And had gone to the BMW to get the crowbar. They had not seen the rider come out of the truck stop yet. They were watching the bike. They were making a plan. I Kagawa walked up. She was 5’6. She was in a black leather cut over a blue t-shirt and jeans.

Her braid was down her back. She stopped 6 ft from Palmer Vestup. Now, before we go on, I want you to sit with something. Imagine you are Ivy Kagawa, 46 years old, alone in a parking lot at 11:43 at night in Amarillo on the way to the deathbed of an old friend. You come out of a truck stop and there are four men your son’s age on your motorcycle and one of them has a crowbar and one of them is laughing on his phone.

Would you scream? Would you call 911? Would you run back inside? Or would you stand very still? And would you speak? Sit with that. Because what Ivy did next made every other decision that got made in that parking lot that night. She stood very still, she said softly. GGentleman, that is my bike. Palmer Vestup turned. He was 6 feet tall.

He had a smile that had been smiled at other people’s faces a lot in his 19 years, and it had mostly gotten him what he wanted. He said, “Ma’am, is it? That’s cool. Is this a boyfriend’s bike, or is it really yours?” Ivy said, “It is really mine. Please put the crowbar down.” Bram Ostrocane said laughing. Ma’am, you shouldn’t be out here this late. It is dangerous.

Colon Everett said, “We were just checking on your bike, ma’am. You know, safety.” Palmer Vvestup did not put the crowbar down. Ivy said quietly. Gentlemen, please move to the side of the bike. I am going to leave now. Palmer Vvestrop laughed. He said, “Ma’am, come on. Just hang out with us.

What is your name?” Ivy said, “My name is Ivy Kagawa.” She said it the way she had learned to say it in four years of running the International Office of the Dust Devil Nation. She said it flatly. She said it the way you sign a check. She said, “And I would like to ask you one time to step away from my bike.” Bram Ostrocane laughed. Palmer Vestrup, feeling his three friends laughing behind him, tapped the crowbar against her tank, not hard.

It made a small tiny sound, but he tapped it against the tank. Ivy Kagawa closed her eyes for one second. Then she opened them. She reached slowly into her cut. She took out her phone. She did not dial 911. She dialed a number she had dialed 27 times in the last month. The number belonged to a woman named Petia Nakosh, the current chapter president of the dust devil nation Amarillo chapter and the youngest daughter of one of the club’s founders.

Petia lived 4 miles from the Flying J. Petia was a widow. Pia was 51. Petia had been in bed for an hour reading. Petia picked up on the second ring. She said, “Iivey, it’s late. Are you okay?” Ivy said quietly. Petia, I am at the Flying Jay at exit 72. There are four young men here. They are drunk.

One of them has a crowbar and has hit my tank with it. I have asked them to move. They will not move. I am not going to escalate this. I am going to stand here and I would like you and however many of your brothers are close by to come here now. Peta Nakosh was silent for two seconds. Then she said, “Iivevy, I am putting on my boots. Stay on the line.

” She did not hang up. She put the phone in her hoodie pocket and she pulled on her boots and she pulled on her cut and she got on her bike which was parked in her driveway. As she was doing this, she was also texting the Amarillo chapters group thread with one hand. The text said one thing. I vy at exit 72 flying Jay now.

Quiet. She was on the road in 3 minutes. Meanwhile, at the Flying Jay, Palmer Vestroo was still holding the crowbar. Palma Vestroop said, “Ma’am, are you calling someone?” “Who are you calling?” Ivy said. “I am calling my sister. She lives 4 miles from here. She is coming to pick me up.

” “Please move to the side of my bike,” Palmer Vstrup said. “Your sister?” Ivy said. “My sister.” Palmavestrip looked at his three friends. He was starting to get uncomfortable. He was starting to feel in the particular way that a young man who has miscalculated feels that this parking lot was not shaped the way he had thought it was shaped.

He said, “Guys, come on. Let’s just go.” Bram Ostrocane said, “No way, dude. She just insulted us. Ma’am, you insulted us.” Ivy did not answer. At 11:51, the first bike came into the parking lot. It was Petia Nakosh. She rolled in slowly on a 1998 soft tail. Her headlight was on. She parked 40 ft from Ivy’s bike.

She did not dismount. She sat on her bike. She looked at the four young men. She said nothing. At 11:53, two more bikes rolled in. They parked next to Petia. They did not dismount. They sat on their bikes. At 11:56, five more bikes rolled in. They parked in a wide arc across the row behind Iivey’s bike.

They did not dismount. At 12:01, the ark of bikes was 14 deep. The Amarillo chapter had 17 members. 14 of them had made it out of bed and to the Flying Jay in under 20 minutes. None of them had spoken. None of them had dismounted. 14 headlights were pointed at Palmer Vestrop and Palmer Vestrop’s three friends and Palmer Vestup’s crowbar.

Palmer Vestrop dropped the crowbar. It rang off the pavement. Kalan Everett said, “Oh my god, Dennis Marbell, 18, freshman, started to cry. Palmer Vestrop said, “Ma’am, ma’am, we were just we were just messing around. We’re really sorry.” Ivy Kagawa said quietly. Palmer, look at me. Palmer Vestrip looked at her. His face was very white.

Ivy said, “Do you see the patch on my back?” Palmer said, “I I can’t.” Ivy said, “Turn me around, Petia.” Nakosh. From her bike 40 ft away, said one word into the parking lot. Air turn. Ivy Kagawa turned around on the back of her cut, above a bottom rocker that said Deenver. Above the club’s name and the club’s dust devil emblem in the year 1979 was a small square patch that said one word, president.

Below it in a rocker across her shoulders in gold thread on black were three more words, dust nation. Palmer Vestrop, who had grown up in a Denver suburb, whose father was a name partner at a midsized commercial real estate firm downtown, whose mother sat on the board of a private day school, Palmer Vestrup had heard of the Dust Devil Nation.

His father had once told him at dinner that when the Dust Devils held their annual charity ride in April, three of Denver’s biggest law firms closed early because too many of their parallegals wanted to ride. “Palmervestrip made a small sound. It was meant to be a word. It came out as nothing.

” “Iivevy turned back around and faced them.” She said quietly, “Gentlemen, I am not going to hurt you. Nobody in this parking lot is going to hurt you. But I am going to ask you, each of you, to give me your driver’s license right now and to sit down on the curb right there and to wait until Amarillo police arrive. My sister has already called them.

They will be here in 8 minutes. Palmer Vestup took out his wallet with a hand that was shaking. He gave Ivy his license. Bram, Dennis, and Ken did the same. Ivy took the four licenses. She walked slowly over to Petia Nikosh. She handed them to Petia. She said quietly, “Peta, photograph these. Send them to the office in Farmington and call their parents.

” Pia said, “All four.” Ivy said, “All four.” The four boys sat on the curb. Denny’s Marbell was still crying. Amarillo police arrived at 12:09. Two officers. They took statements. They took Palmer Verrop’s crowbar into evidence. They found on Palmer’s phone the group text that included Bram Ostrocane’s line. Guys, watch this.

And Palmer’s line that is nothing. Watch this. They found photographs of Iivey’s tank being spit on. They arrested all four boys for aggravated criminal mischief and one count each of terroristic threatening and for Palmer one count of possession of an instrument of a crime. The boys were booked at the Randall County Jail at 1:17 in the morning.

By 4 in the morning, all four sets of parents had been called, not just by Amarillo police, also by Petia Nakosh, who had used the licenses to look up parent contact information through a member of the Denver chapter who happened to work for a records retrieval firm and who happened to be awake and happy to help. Palmer Vestrup’s father, Karsten Vestrop, a name partner at Vestre Halbrook and Ruiz in Denver, took his son’s call from jail at 1:42 in the morning.

He listened to his son cry for 4 minutes. Then he said, “Palmer, do not say another word. I am flying down. I will be there by breakfast.” Karsten Vestrop arrived in Amarillo at 9:00 the following morning on a private plane. He met his son at the county jail. He posted bail. He drove his son to a hotel on the north side of Amarillo.

Then he made one phone call before flying his son home. He is called Peta Nakosh. He asked quietly for a meeting with Ivy Kagawa. Petia said Karsten. She has already left Amarillo. She is on the way to Gallup to sit with our former international president who is dying. She will be back next week. come to the Denver chapter house on Monday.

Karsten said, “Thank you.” The other three sets of parents did similar things. Bram Ostrocane’s father was a cardiologist. Denies Marbell’s mother was a state judge. Kalen Everett’s father was the CEO of a midsized software firm. All four families were, by any reasonable definition, wealthy. All four families knew by the time their sons were home from Amarillo exactly what their sons had done in that parking lot.

The following Monday at the Denver chapter house of the dust devil nation at 4 in the afternoon, Karsten Vestrrop, cardiologist Ostroka, Judge Marbell, and CEO Everett sat across a long wooden table from Ivy Kagawa, Petia Nakosh, and the current Denver chapter president, a woman named Wilma Halverson.

The four boys were also there. They sat behind their parents. They did not speak. Eeveie Kagawa said quietly. Sir, madam, thank you for coming. I do not want to fight with you. I want three things, she said. First, restitution. $2,000 for the tank of my bike. 1 $1,500 for the psychological cost of what your sons did. The 1,500 is going to the Denver chapter’s widows and orphans fund.

I do not want it personally. Karsten Vestroop said, “Done. All four of us split four ways. Delivered this week.” Ivy said second. Each of your sons is going to write a letter of apology. Not to me. To my brother. His name was Sergeant Kai Kagawa. He died at Camp Bastion at 2011. He was 3 years older than your sons. Each of your sons is going to write him a letter at least two pages long and read it out loud to me in this room next Monday. Nobody else will hear.

Cardiologist Ostrocane, who had a son of his own who had died at 23 of an overdose 11 years earlier, made a small sound and put his hand over his eyes. Ivy said, “Third, each of your sons is going to volunteer for the next 12 months at the Denver chapter’s adaptive motorcycle program. That is a program that places motorcycles rebuilt for disabled veterans.

Your sons are going to help wrench them. They do not have to know anything about motorcycles.” “We will teach them,” Karsten Vestroo said. “Done,” Ivy said. “That is all I want.” Judge Marbell said, “Madame President, my son will complete every one of those things. And I want to say personally on the record, she looked at her son, Dean. Look at me.

If you ever, ever do anything like this again, you will not have a mother. Do you understand me?” Dennis Marbell said, “Yes, Mom.” Karsten Vestroop on the way out at the door of the chapter house put his hand on Ivy Kagawa’s arm. He said quietly. Miss Kagawa, my son could have gotten somebody killed. Somebody like you, somebody’s daughter, somebody’s mother. He took out his wallet.

Out of his wallet, folded. He took a slip of paper. He gave it to her. She unfolded it. It was a check made out to the widows and orphans fund for $25,000. Karsten Vestrup said, “This is separate from the restitution. This is not a plea. This is not a settlement. This is what a father does when his son is not the man his father hoped he would be.

I hope you take it. I hope it does some good. Ivy Kagawa took it, she said quietly. Mr. Vestroop, it will do a lot of good. Thank you. She put the check in her jacket next to the laminated photograph of her brother. Halvore Nakosh Jr. died in Gallup 3 weeks later. Ivy Kagawa was in the room holding his left hand when he went.

His last word to her was quietly granddaughter, which she was not technically, but which she was in the way that mattered. She rode back to Denver alone. She stopped at the Flying Jay at exit 72 on the way. She parked her bike in a different spot. She went in. She had a cup of coffee. She said hello to the same cashier who had checked her out 3 weeks earlier.

She did not tell the cashier what had happened. There was no need. The adaptive motorcycle program that summer placed 21 motorcycles with 21 veterans. Palmer Vestrup, Bram Ostrocane, Denise Marbell, and Ken Everett were on hand for all 21 deliveries. They did not talk to the press. They wrenched bikes. They loaded trailers. They shook hands.

And every one of them by the end of the summer could adjust a valve lash on a Harley engine which was three more skills than they had had in Amarillo. Bram Ostrocane that fall changed his major from finance to social work. Denny’s Marbell 3 years later joined the dust devil nation as a prospect in the Denver chapter.

He earned his patch in 14 months. He does not talk about how he got there. Palmer Vestroop the following spring gave a talk at his father’s law firm’s summer intern orientation. He described in 17 minutes what he had done in a parking lot in Amarillo and what a woman 5′ 6 in tall in a black leather cut had done in response.

He described the 14 headlights. He described the check his father had written. He described at the end the moment he had stood behind Karsten Vestroop at that long wooden table in the Denver chapter house and had watched his father say to a stranger. This is what a father does when his son is not the man his father hoped he would be.

He said that was the sentence that had reordered his whole life. You know what I think about when I think about Ivy Kagawa in that parking lot? It is not the 14 bikes. It is not the license plates being photographed. It is not the $25,000 check. It is the fact that she called her sister. She did not call the police first.

She did not call her chapter president first. She did not call the international office. She is called Petia Nakosh. and Petia Nakosh got out of bed. That is the command, not the $25,000 check. The phone call to Petia. So tell me, drop your city in the comments. Tell me where you are listening from. And tell me about the woman in your laugh life who is quieter than she should be.

The one you underestimated because of what she looked like at the end of a long day. If this story struck something in you, share it with somebody who has been misjudged in a parking lot in their own life. Subscribe. Turn on notifications. There is more where this came from. Every single ride, another story the road taught me.

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